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      1. "You’re gay? You don’t look gay to me" "Too bad you’re gay" "You have to meet my other gay friend" "If you weren’t gay, I would have slept with you" "You said boyfriend, I think your tongue slipped" "Do you know if X is gay?" "You gays are so much fun!" @josecanyousee/1270447880432582656
    1. …in reply to @simardcasanova
      Using circumlocutions to a) make a homophobic joke 2) avoid to say that X is gay/lesbian/bi/etc. "You gays can recognize each other, do you think X is gay?" "Why are all the cute ones gay?" Using "gay" or a synonym in a derogatory way and say "but I wasn’t talking of you"
  1. …in reply to @simardcasanova
    "Who’s the man and the woman in the relationship?" (This one is wrong at so many levels) "How can you like soccer? You’re gay!"
    1. …in reply to @simardcasanova
      *All* of that was things somebody said to me at least once in my life, and they all made me at least slightly uncomfortable I’m not sure all of them would be considered as micro agressions by other gay men, but for me they felt like it